At the point when Buddha was strolling through a town educating, a discourteous and furious individual who had a place with another gathering of adherents strolls in. He begins offending Gautama and says, "You have no correct instructing others. You are as moronic as every other person." He yelled, "You are only a phony." 

Seeing his annoyance, Buddha just gave a delicate grin and asked, "Let me know, on the off chance that you purchase a present for somebody and if that individual doesn't take it, to whom does the blessing have a place with?" 

This inquiry pushed the individual to astonish and he answers, "It has a place with me since I purchased the blessing." Gautama grinned and stated, "It's hard to believe, but it's true. It is actually the same with your annoyance and disappointment. 

On the off chance that you become furious with me and on the off chance that I don't get offended, at that point the annoyance counts on you. All you have done is harmed yourself." 

This is it. We should recognize what to dismiss and what to acknowledge in life. For this situation, Buddha basically dismissed the affront and now the blessing has a place with a man as disappointment, outrage, dismay.